Wednesday, October 1, 2008

Making a Connection


Yesterday I talked about one way couples choose to stay connected - writing notes.
Many times I hear a husband or wife say - "But I don't know what to write." or "I can't think of anything to say when I see that blank piece of paper or notecard."
To solve that problem, I found a special product. It's "thought cards" by Smiles Made Easy.
This young Canadian mom created little note cards with prompts like "You have a great way of ..." or "You make me happy when ..." or "My favorite thing about you is ...".

Their motto is - We start the thought. You finish it. It's never been so easy to say what you've always wanted!

Here's a quote from Karem's website http://www.smilesmadeeasy.com/:

"... a note-writer by inclination, I have turned writing love notes to my husband into a successful business... I want to make it easy to connect and say things that, in today's hectic world, often don't get said. So be inspiring, reminiscent, goofy, or romantic ... but be sure to say it, and say it often."

What a great mission - encouraging action to stay connected!
There are 5 different tins:
  • I Love it When ...
  • Remember When ...
  • I Have Fun When ...
  • I Am Proud When ...
  • You're A Great Mom Because ...

Inside each tin: 15 Envelopes, 15 different - 3.2" X 3.9" - thought cards, and one index card.

The tins are small enough to slip into a purse or pocket and write one thought card while sitting at a stop light, or at the bathroom counter before bed to tuck one under your spouse's pillow!

Here's a quote from someone who's used these cards to connect with her husband:

"Smiles Made Easy thought cards was a fantastic gift. I purchased the "Remember When…" set for my husband and had so much fun filling out the cards. He thoroughly enjoyed remembering the moments I had written down from years past and I will never forget the smile it left on his face!"

Maybe you could give one of these little tins as a gift to a couple you know - someone who needs a little boost in how to encourage their spouse?

The website is http://www.smilesmadeeasy.com/ - it's a Canadian company but they do ship to the USA.

Note: I don't know this person or receive anything from this product. I just found it in a card shop and fell in love with the idea. I'm all for making encouragement an easy process!



1 comment:

Anonymous said...

With our being bombarded all the time (and specifically right now) with news of how bad our economy is, our politics, and the like, it really is time to stop and smell the roses. Lori, your idea to support smilesmadeeasy.com with your generous post is a great service.

As we never know when we will leave this life AND because we can't do anything about politics (except vote) or gas prices (being frugal in running around) or financial obstacles (create multiple sources of income), why not stay heads down on 1) telling your loved ones every day how much you love and appreciate them, 2) stay focused on your short and long term goals, and 3) encourage others to do these same things.

We know what to do with our time, but the big 'pull' to be part of the 'mass' has us forget what we know to do and get together and continue breeding ill-will about these subjects which simply exacerbates them.

Great ideas are usually simple ones.