Tangible Encouragement

Sometimes encouragement can take a tangible form.

On a cold, dreary day a hot bowl of homemade soup with a side of crusty warm bread can feel comforting.

Never underestimate the power of warmth. The one you love may not always be close, but if they are, then reach out - provide a warm, loving gesture.

A gesture could be food. Or that warm, loving gesture might take a more intimate form. The choice is yours. Encourage and warm your spouse from the inside out. ;-)

Thank your spouse... today!

'Feeling gratitude
and not expressing it
is like wrapping a present
and not giving it.'

William Ward (1921-1994 - inspirational author)

Great quote, huh?*

I value Robert's ability to persevere. It's one of his main core values and he's demonstrated that quality all through our married life. I probably value that quality because I struggle in that area... ;-)


When was the last time you thanked your spouse for their good qualities - those qualities you value?

Take time today - say it, put it in a card, email it or text - and let the one you love know how thankful you feel!

* ... just a little confession... the reason this quote made such an impact on me is that I'm feeling guilty. Why? I have this present and a hand-made thank-you card sitting in a drawer - it's for a special couple who invited us over for a wonderful dinner and evening in June. Yes, I know. June... :-(

What will your spouse anticipate?

It's interesting - when I step out on the deck in the early morning, the horses come to the fence.

Why?

They expect something good from me.

What do I do?

I feed them carrots, pet and pat them, and praise them softly.

Those actions aren't over-the-top, amazing and outstanding... they're just ways I show the horses how much I like them.

That's what encouraging is about - it's taking action to give your spouse good things.

• new ideas to "chew" on when confronted with challenges
  
• a comforting or soothing touch to show your love
  
• and words of praise for their good qualities

When your spouse sees you first thing in the morning, do they anticipate something good?